Tell us what's going on, we'll help you find the right response (or tell you if a consequence isn't what this moment needs), plus the exact words to say.
Describe what happened, or the behavior you're trying to address, whether it already happened or it's something you're setting a boundary around now. The more you tell us about what they actually do, the better the script.
Thinking it through...
🗣️ Worth Considering
This could be a moment for a little curiosity, alongside or instead of a consequence. Here's what that could sound like:
Natural Consequence
Say This: Natural Consequence Route
Related Consequence
Say This: Related Consequence Route
🤍 One More Thing
Try Another Situation
A note: This tool is designed for everyday cooperation moments with typical child behavior. It is not meant to cover serious behavioural issues or dangerous behaviour. It is not a substitute for professional support. If your child is experiencing persistent anxiety, significant emotional or behavioral difficulties, developmental concerns, trauma, or anything that feels beyond everyday parenting, please seek guidance from a qualified professional. Suggestions are a guide only, this tool is AI-generated and won't always get it right, use your judgment, and feel free to regenerate if a suggestion doesn't fit.