Tell us what's going on, we'll help you find the right response (or tell you if a consequence isn't what this moment needs), plus the exact words to say.
Describe what happened, or the behavior you're trying to address, past or ongoing, be as specific as you can.
Thinking it through...
Natural Consequence
Say This — Natural Consequence Route
Related Consequence
Say This — Related Consequence Route
🤍 One More Thing
Try Another Situation
A note: This tool is designed for everyday cooperation moments with typical child behavior. It is not meant to cover serious behavioural issues or dangerous behaviour. It is not a substitute for professional support. If your child is experiencing persistent anxiety, significant emotional or behavioral difficulties, developmental concerns, trauma, or anything that feels beyond everyday parenting, please seek guidance from a qualified professional. Suggestions are a guide only, this tool is AI-generated and won't always get it right, use your judgment, and feel free to regenerate if a suggestion doesn't fit.